Three friends are having a hard time. One laments being lonely unpartnered. Another tends a spouse with a tough prognosis. A third faces an unjust assault to a career. Oy, such downers for the hazy, lazy days of mid-summer! Of course, the comforting idea that certain times are “supposed” to be happy isn’t always the world’s… Continue reading Nowhere to Run (And a Good Thing, Too)
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Separation of Shul and State
In this moment of high political drama in U.S. and European history, politicians are claiming moral and even spiritual mantles to advocate causes. This week's Torah portion (Balak) focuses us on that political use and misuse of spiritual authority. Balak was king of Moab, through whose desert territory the Israelites had to travel en route… Continue reading Separation of Shul and State
How to Fall on Your Face: The Spiritual Art of Leadership
This post is for you if you ever felt small after receiving critique or challenge, or that a leadership burden is too heavy, or that no good deed goes unpunished. (Essentially, this post is for everyone.) And of course, this post is for me and my own roles in government, congregational life and a national nonprofit organization. If we teach… Continue reading How to Fall on Your Face: The Spiritual Art of Leadership
When Fright Makes Right
Some fear is healthy ("don't stand in a busy highway"). Other fear is insidious, paralyzing, hope-draining and soul-snatching – and existential fear can be toxic if left to fester. This week's Torah portion (Shlach) calls us to see existential fear what it is, and move through it as a core commitment of Judaism. This week we learn… Continue reading When Fright Makes Right
Receiving Torah, renewing the soul
Isabella Freedman Jewish Retreat Center Shavuot Retreat June 11, 2016 • 5 Sivan 5776 On this Shabbat flowing into Shavuot, our Torah portion readies us to receive Torah anew inהתחדשות הנפש / renewal of the soul. The question is how: how can receiving Torah renew the soul? How can standing at Sinai make us like new?… Continue reading Receiving Torah, renewing the soul
China as Sinai and Parakeets on the Roof: The Important Spiritual Art of Jewish Bloopers
I’ll never forget that time I taught the first line of this week’s Torah portion (B’midbar). One English translation begins, “God spoke to Moses in the wilderness of Sinai” (Numbers 1:1), from which Jewish tradition spins countless interpretations. Reading this verse, the student asked me, “Why did God speak to Moses in China?” Nonsense: The Sinai peninsula is adjacent to modern-day Israel,… Continue reading China as Sinai and Parakeets on the Roof: The Important Spiritual Art of Jewish Bloopers
In the Wilderness: How to Receive Torah
Next weekend (June 11, 2016) is Shavuot, Festival of Receiving Torah, when we evoke standing together at Sinai to receive anew the wisdom we call Torah. As preparation, this week's Torah portion (Bamidbar – "in the wilderness") comes to remind us how to open ourselves to receive that wisdom anew. The lesson, it turns out, is about wilderness itself.… Continue reading In the Wilderness: How to Receive Torah
Ask the Rabbi: Are We Commanded to Vote?
Every Jew has a duty to vote in the democratic elections in one’s nation of citizenship. Jewish law mandates the creation of civil government (Avot 3:2, Avodah Zara 4a) and obliges all who benefit from public services to help provide them (Bava Batra 7b, Bava Metzia 108a). Voting follows from this Jewish communitarian value against… Continue reading Ask the Rabbi: Are We Commanded to Vote?
Keystones of Renewal: The ALEPH Listening Tour, the Future and You.
Kabbalat Shabbat Congregation Nevei Kodesh Boulder, Colorado May 20, 2016 • 13 Iyar 5776 Shabbat Shalom. Thank you, Rabbi Sarah Bracha and the Nevei Kodesh family, for so warmly welcoming Rachel and me. For months we looked forward to this weekend. We couldn't be happier to be here. When Reb Sarah Bracha asked me… Continue reading Keystones of Renewal: The ALEPH Listening Tour, the Future and You.
Blemishes, One and All
One of the greatest blemishes on Biblical tradition is how it treats the so-called "blemish" of those who might be called into spiritual service. This week's Torah portion (Emor) shines this challenge directly in our eyes, dares us to flinch and calls us to make a repair. In ancient days, a "blemish" (Hebrew, mum) disqualified a… Continue reading Blemishes, One and All
All of Us: ‘Rock Band’ Judaism and Emotional Contagion
Scientists report that playing a game like Rock Band can make you more caring – and the reason touches the core of what it means to be Jewish. Humans tend to experience less empathy for “strangers” than for people we deem “more like us” – family, friends, colleagues and members of our “tribe.” Neurobiology explains that perceived similarity triggers our mirror neurons,… Continue reading All of Us: ‘Rock Band’ Judaism and Emotional Contagion
Shabbat HaGadol, the ALEPH Listening Tour, and reclaiming the voice
Kabbalat Shabbat – Shabbat HaGadol Kehilla Community Synagogue April 15, 2016 • 8 Nisan 5776 Shabbat Shalom. Thank you Reb David, Reb Dev, Hazzan Shulamit, Reb Burt, Reb Diane and the whole Kehilla family for so warmly welcoming Rachel and me. For months we've looked forward to this weekend, and we couldn't be happier to be here.… Continue reading Shabbat HaGadol, the ALEPH Listening Tour, and reclaiming the voice
Going free in the light
Shabbat Dvar – Parshat Tazria Elijah Minyan & Shirat HaYam San Diego, California April 9, 2016 • 1 Nisan 5776 Shabbat Shalom and Chodesh Tov. Thank you Reb Wayne and Ellen, David and Rhonda, Elijah Minyan and Shirat HaYam, for your warm welcome. Aor this New Yorker who just saw snow, the "warm" part of your… Continue reading Going free in the light
Keeping the fire burning
Kabbalat Shabbat Dvar – Parshat Tzav Or Shalom Synagogue Vancouver, British Columbia March 25, 2016 • 16 Adar II 5776 Shabbat shalom. For months Rachel and I have looked forward to this weekend, and we couldn't be happier to be here. I confess to a bit of East Coast jetlag, but your hospitality and warmth have… Continue reading Keeping the fire burning
Keeping the Light On
Next time you are in a synagogue, gaze at the eternal flame atop the Ark. Its symbolism represents the beating heart of spiritual and community life, if we make it so. Our spiritual ethos, hope, aspiration and calling is that the light never goes out – or so we tell ourselves. This week's Torah portion… Continue reading Keeping the Light On
“If One’s Means Do Not Suffice”: Confronting the High Price of Doing Jewish
Judaism and justice go hand in hand. The Jewish value of tzedakah (charity, from the Hebrew word for “justice”) underscores that to “be Jewish” is partly to “do Jewish,” and to “do Jewish” means to give generously. Judaism asks tzedakah not only as charitable acts of support for others, but also as defining acts of identity for ourselves.… Continue reading “If One’s Means Do Not Suffice”: Confronting the High Price of Doing Jewish
Building the Trusting Heart
Pretend you're designing and building a new state Capitol. Imagine in precise detail the stones, woodwork, glass, tools, glue, joints, wiring and metalwork you'd need: such immense architectural plans could fill books. Now imagine getting the materials – not with tax revenue or apportioning needs directly to people able to fulfill them, but simply by saying the… Continue reading Building the Trusting Heart
Seeing Bigger
Travel in your mind to the top of our atmosphere, where Earth’s envelope of life-giving oxygen and nitrogen blends into the cold vacuum of space. Looking down from that heady height, as astronauts have done since 1961, the Earth below seems borderless and pastoral, gently still except for flashes of lightning and polar aurorae dancing across the globe. This uplifted perspective on our planet… Continue reading Seeing Bigger
A Space for Spirit
Perspective is everything. How we see the world – our point of view – shapes how the world affects us and thus how we live. The opposite also is true: how we live shapes what we see. The two come together in a holy handshake, with profound implications for Jewish spirituality, what Jews believe and how we… Continue reading A Space for Spirit
From Sigh to Song: A Way Toward Freedom
Jews are a People of the Book; Jews also are a People of the Song. In fear, poverty, war and exile, song packed light and eased the way. This spiritual secret is encoded in Jewish spiritual DNA: we can sing our way through. Even for those of us who wouldn’t describe ourselves as singers, the ancient secret of song is ours to rediscover and… Continue reading From Sigh to Song: A Way Toward Freedom